Free in Many Ways Right now I’m the freest I have ever been in my life. I have walked away from the job that was controlling my life. I have cut ties with friends who brought more drama than joy. I am no longer bound to restrictive family members. Free …
Weekend Fun Last weekend I was at a rope event. Bear in mind that I am new to the off-line BDSM-world. All I’ve ever done with bondage was at home. Ninety per cent of the time was in the comfort of the bedroom. I love attending these peer-ropes. I’m still …
Fall has Arrived It’s November. The clock has already been changed to wintertime. The weather is gloomy and wet. The leaves on the trees have turned yellow and are starting to fall. There’s no denying that the seasons have changed. Bright summer has made place for dark autumn. Many people …
Need for Mystery I love secrets. But Liz, you always say how open you are in your relationship and how you share everything? I do. It’s not like I’m holding back anything significant. I just need to have some secrets. Secret Reading This started when I was growing up. My …
Trigger warning: This post deals with the death of a person by suicide. Which Road? I was gonna write this piece about my vanilla ex, and how my life would have been, had I stayed with him. It would have been pleasant, stable, and, you know, nice. Then I thought …
Mean to Me I’m always tough on myself. When discussing punishments with my Dominant, he said: there’s no one in the world who can punish you more than you already punish yourself. The last couple of weeks I’ve been feeling somewhat blue and lethargic, so I picked up a self-help …
Silence Please I’m a bad submissive. I mean, I try really hard to be a good girl, and overall I’m not that bad, but communication-wise, I’m a terrible sub. I don’t talk. During play, I want to withdraw into myself, and either enjoy the sensations or overlay them with my …
Trigger warning: this blog post contains references to sexual violence. Fascinated Anal sex is a tough subject for me. If you ask me: Liz, do you like anal? My answer is: Yes! Give it to me all day every day. But… For several reasons, that’s unfortunately impossible. And not only …
“Tongue kisses?” I pulled up my nose. “I hate them. The others looked at me amusedly. “Why? Don’t you think it’s hot?” my idol rock star Park asked me. I shook my head. “No, it’s far from hot. It feels like a slimy snail that twirls in your mouth. That’s …
And Don’t Delete It Social Media and Mental Health Ever since I first heard about Facebook, I was intrigued. I’m an early adopter, and I love to try new technologies. In The Netherlands, we had a social media site called Hyves. It’s no longer active, but it was similar in …
