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Introduction
Due to the potential for scamming in this community, finding a genuine and compatible Findom online can be daunting. That’s why we’re exploring the ways we recommend for you to discover your ideal match.
To start your search, it’s good to get a lay of the land. It’s a fairly niche group, so there aren’t too many places with an established community. The most well-known findom site – Findommeet, is one of them, but there are also other classic kink sites, X (formerly Twitter), and r/findomsupportgroup (or r/paypigsupportgroup) on Reddit.
Wherever you decide to start, the community values mutual respect, trust, and good communication. Looking down on either paypigs or Findoms is a surefire way to get booted from these groups.
Since there are a lot of scams out there, the best Findom communities focus on recommending people to the places and Findoms with the best reputation and successful matches.
The Role of a Findom
It’s crucial to note that the term “Goddess” can be misleading, as it encompasses multiple roles within the BDSM context. In the context of Findom, it specifically refers to the dominant individual who exercises control over their partner’s finances. Essentially, it’s a common nickname “paypigs” (that’s the affectionate term for a Findom’s subs) call their Findom. Surrounding “Goddess,” you get stuff like “tribute” which is the most common term for the donations paypigs give to their Findoms.
All in all, the role of a Findom is to facilitate financial control over her paypigs to make them feel humiliated in a way that sexually satisfies. That’s why it’s under the umbrella of Femdom, as it’s about the domination a woman has over a man, but in this case specifically through his finances.
Finding a Findom Online
So, let’s get to the meat here, where can you actually find a Findom online? A good place to start your search is by joining online communities like FetLife, where you can connect with experienced Findoms. From there, searching on Reddit is a good approach for getting information, and for a softer, more sensual approach to start you off, you can search Ethical Findoms or Sensual Findoms. YouTube is also an underrated resource, with many Findoms sharing their experiences and insights through video content.
Specialized Platforms and Websites
In addition to online communities, there are several specialized platforms and websites dedicated to Findom relationships: FindomMeet, LoyalFans, Tryst.link, and Finmessage are all solid options to start you off.
5 Tips for Success
Here are some simple tips for searching for a Findom online:
1. Always be respectful: Approach potential partners with kindness, respect, and honesty. Starting off by looking down at sex workers is a surefire way to ruin your experience and potential for meeting excellent partners.
2. Communicate your desires: Be open about your interests and boundaries and you’ll have a much better chance of finding what you’re looking for.
3. Care about your safety: Never share personal or financial information with strangers without taking the time to make sure it’s safe.
4. Research and verify: Look for Findoms with an established online presence and satisfied clients. There are a lot of scammers out there.
5. Practice patience yet persistence: Finding the right match takes time, so don’t get discouraged by setbacks or rejections.
Conclusion
When all is said and done, you have just gotta dive into the waters and start making connections. One community will lead to another and another over time, as long as you get a foot into the water. Just be careful about putting too much out there too early, because there are a lot of sketchy people on the outskirts of the community. After that, you should be good!
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