A few weeks ago, I stumbled upon Steven Rodriguez on Spotify through a friend’s recommendation. I thought it was the perfect opportunity to write about him, hoping that my blog could provide him with the extra exposure needed in the vast sea of information on the internet. And yes, I …
Do you rehearse before you do things? Or do you just dive into life and let it happen? Are you a planner, or are you spontaneous? The question that drew me in for this prompt was this one: “Before making a phone call, do you ever rehearse what you’re going …
I’m Busy I’m not a people-person. It’s gotten worse over the years, especially now that it combines with social anxiety. As a child, I wasn’t the most sociable person, either. I remember while reading, a friend would come by, asking if I wanted to play outside, and I asked my …
Friends were my theme of 2019. I joined the BDSM community, and I discovered why I hadn’t been able to make friends for over twenty years: kink. I had several best friends during my high school years, but we connected over different things than sexuality. We had a similar lifestyle, …
Mean to Me I’m always tough on myself. When discussing punishments with my Dominant, he said: there’s no one in the world who can punish you more than you already punish yourself. The last couple of weeks I’ve been feeling somewhat blue and lethargic, so I picked up a self-help …
And Don’t Delete It Social Media and Mental Health Ever since I first heard about Facebook, I was intrigued. I’m an early adopter, and I love to try new technologies. In The Netherlands, we had a social media site called Hyves. It’s no longer active, but it was similar in …
Casual Gamer For the #EroticJournalChallenge by Brigit theme of anxiety and fear for the month October, I decided to start with a light-hearted piece on anxiety. I love videogames, and ever since Sims 1 and Everquest, I’ve always had a game in my life. I don’t play games every day, …
