Have you lost your drive, lady? In a world that makes sexual desire, or lack thereof, a taboo topic for women, it’s refreshing to have an open discussion about it. Though we’re over inundated with ads for sexual aids and enhancers for men, women are often forgotten or just plain …
This past week there was one song that spoke to me: Krähenkönig by Subway to Sally.While playing videogames, I listened to the Apple Music station of Subway to Sally. I like their mix of upbeat music, and in this station, I also get songs from other artists I like. Many …
All my life, I’ve loved libraries from reading as a child to studying as a teenager and student, back to reading novels as an adult. I have many fond memories of spending time in libraries, but they’re not a part of my life anymore. How did this journey go, and …
How We Used Goals to Structure Our BDSM Relationship My dominant and I are in a 24/7 D/s relationship, but things haven’t always been this way. We struggled with how to fit BDSM into our daily life. Since we didn’t have any friends to discuss this with, it was challenging …
I wish I was impulsive. I used to be more impulsive than I am today. Actually, I’m the complete opposite of impulsive. I have a routine and stick to it with minutious detail. Every day in precisely the same order, my husband and I do the same things. Healthy or …
“Go do something worthwhile,” my mother would often say to me. As a kid, I struggled with this concept. Without cleaning up chores, what really is ‘something worthwhile’ for an eight-year-old? Often I would go read, or once I learned a booklet by heart since I didn’t know what else …
To say this blog grew a little from 2019 to 2020 would be an understatement. I rose from 2,000 views to nearly 18,000 views per year. This is an increase I had not foreseen or even dared to dream would happen. Seeing my daily views and comments are definitely a …
I don’t like repeating phrases, but what a year this has been. I reread my resolutions post from the beginning of the year, and I warily smiled at my innocence. I didn’t know what was coming. I had no idea I was soon going to be locked inside my house …
I wish everyone the best of holidays, whether you’re spending time with loved ones or apart—light a candle for those who may be far away or have passed on to the other side. Remember the good times and the fun you had together. Don’t be sad for what we’ve lost …
Christmas is only days away, the Top 2000 is about to begin, and since everyone has to stay at home this year, I would like to highlight some of my books. I always forget to do this, but this year I figured the time was right. Rocky Road to Christmas …
