Control and Trust Being a submissive, I give up control. That’s kind of in the job description. But it’s not that easy, nor that straightforward. Because tied to control is trust. You can only give up control unless you trust the person you’re handing it over to. Or, as in …
Bucket List for Me Run a marathon! Visit the Taj Mahal! Go bungee-jumping! Yeah, maybe you already guessed it, but that’s not me. These items you most often see on a bucket list are definitely not on mine, should I have one. To be honest, I’ve never sat down and …
Bleak House When this year started, life was bleak. I quit my day job and moved to another part of the country three years ago. My life was instantly better, but it was hard to adjust to my new, free life. No more set times for work, no one giving …
Which One? When I saw the prompt for Food for Thought, I nearly panicked. One book? How was I ever going to choose one book? I’ve read so many books in my life, from an early age. I don’t have many books that I reread. I have some that I …
On the 2nd of December, Molly released her Top 100 Sex Blogger list of 2019, which was sponsored by Chaturbate. Please check out these amazing bloggers who devote time to spread the message that sex and kink are not evil or something to be ashamed of, but something to be …
Bad Day I will recount this story as it happened. I was having a bad day. Like really bad. I’ve had a busy weekend with lots of visitors. Okay, three, but that is a lot in my case when you’re used to none. My husband had to work early today, …
Free in Many Ways Right now I’m the freest I have ever been in my life. I have walked away from the job that was controlling my life. I have cut ties with friends who brought more drama than joy. I am no longer bound to restrictive family members. Free …
Weekend Fun Last weekend I was at a rope event. Bear in mind that I am new to the off-line BDSM-world. All I’ve ever done with bondage was at home. Ninety per cent of the time was in the comfort of the bedroom. I love attending these peer-ropes. I’m still …
Fall has Arrived It’s November. The clock has already been changed to wintertime. The weather is gloomy and wet. The leaves on the trees have turned yellow and are starting to fall. There’s no denying that the seasons have changed. Bright summer has made place for dark autumn. Many people …
Need for Mystery I love secrets. But Liz, you always say how open you are in your relationship and how you share everything? I do. It’s not like I’m holding back anything significant. I just need to have some secrets. Secret Reading This started when I was growing up. My …
