Job of Dreams Watching porn as part of your day job is a dream, right? Testing sex toys, imagining hot scenarios for stories, writing sexual content must be a dream job. The past couple of weeks, I’ve been wondering why I chose this life. I mean, I could have been …
Merry Christmas! I love the Holiday spirit. I really do. I love it when the days become shorter when there are lights in the streets when the first Christmas decorations reach the stores. But at the same time, I dread the upcoming season. Because every year, without fail, I become …
I will never start a blog. About a year ago, I listened to Kayla Lords’ ‘Smutlancer‘ podcast, and her first advice to making money in writing about sex online is: start a blog. You need a blog to start gathering an audience and to have content to show to prospective …
The original prompt was to give advice to your 5-year-old self, but I thought that to be too young. The prompt didn’t leave my mind, so I decided to write a post on it, but to my 10-year-old self instead. Another World I was ten when I moved from a …
Where to Begin? Even though my husband and I connected because of our kink interests, our D/s wasn’t immediately the way it is now. Over the past ten years, we struggled to get it into a shape we both enjoyed. Early on, we both had losses in our families, we …
We Don’t Do Public Play Once a friend asked my husband and me: ‘Do you guys do public play?’ ‘No, no, no,’ we replied. ‘That’s not us.’ He continued: ‘I wish I had a partner with whom I could do play in public. You know, little things, like pulling hair …
When I saw the subject of this prompt, I struggled with it for many days. Was I going to write about my own taboos? About the general ideas of taboos in sexuality? After reading the other entries for this prompt, I felt compelled to go a step further than how …
Liz the Witch Funnily enough, my personal preference for bondage started with an imaginary version. One time, as a kid still in primary school, I was playing with the neighborhood kids, and somehow, I ended up as the evil witch being chained and locked away. Just for the record, there …
Still Waters Run Deep Grounds I’ve always been the silent type. Part of this is my personality, the other part is learned behavior. I learned at an early age that it was better to keep quiet in order not to unleash anger in my mother. Later in life, I also …
A big man, clad in leather, slashing out with his long whip. His vibe is mean and intimidating. Everyone around him cowers in fear. Is this what being a Dominant in BDSM is like? Do you really need to wear leather or use painful implements? What if I don’t like …
