“There are only two days in the year that nothing can be done. One is called Yesterday and the other is called Tomorrow. Today is the right day to Love, Believe, Do and mostly Live.” ― Dalai Lama XIV If there’s something I’m good at, it’s worrying. Ruminating over what …
Tell Me About – When Life Gets In The Way Many time have I described this issue. Life has this annoying tendency to snuck itself into a harmonious time. My husband and I met knowing we were into BDSM. Our dynamic was present from the beginning. My husband thought within …
To my surprise, I have never written about my introvert personality. I think many of you will have guessed it by now. I’m a textbook introvert. I love being alone. I dislike crowds and groups of people. But in what areas does this play out in my daily life? Am …
I Did Should you quit your day job and pursue your greatest dream? After all, I did. It’s not that easy, though. And for us, me and my husband, we thought about it for many years. We discussed it, considered it, did the calculations to see if we would make …
Tell Me About – Patience I always thought of myself as a patient person when I was younger—wise, intelligent, virtuous, and, of course, patient. My teenage self did not lack confidence. Until one day I was shopping with my first boyfriend. We had entered a jewellery store because I was …
Tell Me About – Kink Kink is essential in my life, in every part of it. Ever since I first came across it as a teenager, I knew this was a part of me. I have never been ashamed of being into BDSM. It’s just part of who I am. …
Music has always been a constant factor in my life. Using music as a form of therapy too. Early on, I recognised how focusing on music would calm me down when upset. I also acknowledged how music could change my mood and make me more energetic, much in the same …
All my life, I’ve been interested in sex. Almost all of my investigations and the story-writing I did was solitary. Of course, I had friends, but we never discussed sex in detail. From early on, I discovered I was into BDSM. I think I might have brushed upon the subject …
Expectations can be fickle things. On the one hand, I expect only the best outcomes to happen. On the other hand, I’m quite a negative person who often holds a realistic and pessimistic outlook.The same goes for our BDSM-life. My partner and I often prepared for a big play-session, and …
How I watch porn is what I often call my ‘porn-therapy.’ I’m not addicted; let’s make that clear from the beginning. I can go weeks, or even months, without watching any. But then, when I do come across it again, it feels good. In a way, it feels like coming …
