90s Music Music was vital to me during the 90s. I connected with friends over music. Visiting music stores gave us an outing. And of course, we fantasized about our lives together with pop stars.Music was a common thread for me throughout these years. It definitely brought me a lot …
Labels We interpret the world by using stereotypes. You could even call it discrimination. This is not a bad thing. There simply isn’t enough time in the world to evaluate everyone on a personal level. Imagine walking through the street and knowing, and forming an opinion, on everyone’s backstory. You …
Never the Twain Shall Meet I’m a private person. Unfortunately, life has taught me that it is dangerous to be open and welcoming to the world. Time and time again, I’ve been betrayed by those closest to me. This has led me, and my husband, to be very private. Our …
Friends were my theme of 2019. I joined the BDSM community, and I discovered why I hadn’t been able to make friends for over twenty years: kink. I had several best friends during my high school years, but we connected over different things than sexuality. We had a similar lifestyle, …
Spoiled I’m quite spoiled. Yes, I’ve suffered a hard life, and yes, I’ve always worked my butt off in retail, but at the same time, I’ve always been spoiled in one way or another. My father has always spoiled me. Even when our funds were limited, he tried to give …
Fall has Arrived It’s November. The clock has already been changed to wintertime. The weather is gloomy and wet. The leaves on the trees have turned yellow and are starting to fall. There’s no denying that the seasons have changed. Bright summer has made place for dark autumn. Many people …
Need for Mystery I love secrets. But Liz, you always say how open you are in your relationship and how you share everything? I do. It’s not like I’m holding back anything significant. I just need to have some secrets. Secret Reading This started when I was growing up. My …
Trigger warning: This post deals with the death of a person by suicide. Which Road? I was gonna write this piece about my vanilla ex, and how my life would have been, had I stayed with him. It would have been pleasant, stable, and, you know, nice. Then I thought …
Trigger warning: this blog post contains references to sexual violence. Fascinated Anal sex is a tough subject for me. If you ask me: Liz, do you like anal? My answer is: Yes! Give it to me all day every day. But… For several reasons, that’s unfortunately impossible. And not only …
Dreams I’ve always been intrigued with electrical play. The same goes for my Dominant. As a teenager, he even constructed such a device himself. He has a background in electricity, so he knows how to do this safely. Yet even when we were together, it took us several years to …
