The Need for Connection I’m not a group person. I prefer one on one contact so that I can make a genuine connection and talk in-depth with the other person. So why did I feel the need to join the local BDSM community? Like real life, with real people? Being …
Bedroom Only Coming from an abusive youth, I never thought I’d like spankings, but I do. In the bedroom, that is. Several times we have tried to do spankings in the living room, but almost every time I freaked out, and we had to stop. It’s just the two of …
What I Really Really Like This week’s prompt for the Erotic Journal Challenge is: What turns you on? The topic piqued my interest. Because, since I’m working as good as full-time on sexual topics, it actually took me quite some time to come up with the answer to this question. …
People Online Come and Go Twenty years now I’ve been online. In those twenty years, I’ve met a lot of people. Some I talked with once, others for more extended periods. And people disappeared. Sometimes I was the one who disappeared. Yes, I’ve ghosted people, and I’m not proud of …
From Nothing to Weekly When I met my Dominant and now husband, ten years ago, spanking was on my hard-limit list. We bought a crop together, but I would not allow him to do much more than soft stroking or tapping with it. Nowadays, spankings are on our weekly menu …
To a New Beginning Happy New Year! But Liz, it’s the 30th of April, isn’t this a bit late? Well, maybe, but I’m convinced that when you want to change something in your life, there’s no better day than today. Okay, enough with the cliches. For the past two and …
